Si noi tot in clasa a doua... patim la fel in ceea ce priveste temele. Invatatoarea noastra obisnuia anul trecut sa limiteze la 30 de minute timpul de lucru in ora, apoi urmau 15 minute mai relaxate, care faceau trecerea catre ora urmatoare. De anul acesta lucreaza toata ora, ne-a spus ca toti copiii din clasa au inca momente cand nu se pot concentra.
Ce am observat noi: uneori da impresia ca nu e atent, ca se gandeste la altceva. In acelasi timp, retine cu multa usurinta ceea ce li se preda, este foarte intuitiv si face corelatii logice, uneori absolut surprinzatoare.
Am citit cate ceva despre asta, pt ca am vrut sa inteleg ce pot face pt a-l ajuta pe copil. Cel mai mult m-au ajutat recomandarile lui Michael Thompson, uite un fragment din raspunsul pt cineva care se confrunta cu o situatie similara (pe site-ul lui poti gasi mai multe exemple la sectiunea Advice):
"Being bright and being persevering are two entirely different things. Intelligence is a gift of nature; the capacity for sustained work is an ability that has to be developed over time. Not many eight-year-old boys have a "natural" capacity for sustained effort and attention, nor do they care enough about homework or the score in a hockey game... Try sitting next to your son when he is doing his homework every night. Turn off the television, create a study hall atmosphere, get a book, sit down with him and say, "I’m going to sit with you because I know it is hard for most boys to pay attention to homework. I’m here if you have any questions." Just use your presence to let him know that you and he are going to sit together for a prescribed amount of time, say twenty minutes... What I am suggesting is that you can teach your son to take the time he needs to do a good job. He doesn’t have the ability at eight years old for the simple reason that he is….eight years old. He’s still impulsive and he’s not very motivated to play an entire hockey game. He will be in time, when he’s bigger, stronger, more focused and when he has developed the wisdom to know that there is a very strong connection between effort and outcome".
Editat de Adriana mica, 22 decembrie 2014 - 22:00 .
